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		<title>By: Self empowerment</title>
		<link>http://tinybuddha.com/blog/4-ways-to-use-jealousy-for-growth-and-personal-gain/comment-page-1/#comment-8288</link>
		<dc:creator>Self empowerment</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jan 2011 07:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice post, totally agreed to change all negative energy to positive and empower  ourselves</description>
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		<title>By: 10 Ways to Slow Down and Still Get Things Done &#124; tinybuddha.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>10 Ways to Slow Down and Still Get Things Done &#124; tinybuddha.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 04:19:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: 8 Ways to Increase Your Joy Factor &#124; tinybuddha.com</title>
		<link>http://tinybuddha.com/blog/4-ways-to-use-jealousy-for-growth-and-personal-gain/comment-page-1/#comment-1272</link>
		<dc:creator>8 Ways to Increase Your Joy Factor &#124; tinybuddha.com</dc:creator>
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		<title>By: QuarterlifeEran</title>
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		<dc:creator>QuarterlifeEran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 01:44:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>love this post Lori! really made me think - I suspect a lot of people (myself included) experience jealousy unnecessarily.  We covet what other people have without really considering what it took to get them there - most likely a lot of hard work!  also intrigued by the commentary of jealousy vs. envy - great thoughts!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>love this post Lori! really made me think &#8211; I suspect a lot of people (myself included) experience jealousy unnecessarily.  We covet what other people have without really considering what it took to get them there &#8211; most likely a lot of hard work!  also intrigued by the commentary of jealousy vs. envy &#8211; great thoughts!</p>
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		<title>By: QuarterlifeEran</title>
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		<dc:creator>QuarterlifeEran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 17:44:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>love this post Lori! really made me think - I suspect a lot of people (myself included) experience jealousy unnecessarily.  We covet what other people ha</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>love this post Lori! really made me think &#8211; I suspect a lot of people (myself included) experience jealousy unnecessarily.  We covet what other people ha</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 16:46:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree that this article is more about envy than jealousy. My understanding is that envy is wanting what someone else has and jealousy is being afraid someone is going to take what you have. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Personally, my issues have been with jealousy more than with envy. I strongly believe that there are no such things as negative emotions - the only thing negative or positive is what we do with those emotions. I appreciate this article because it points out that we can learn from our uncomfortable emotions, perhaps more than we can from our joyful emotions. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;When I am jealous, I understand that I am afraid of losing something I value, and if I&#039;m able to stay centered and balanced, I can use this emotions as a signpost that reminds me to appreciate the thing I value, without getting lost in the fear. I can&#039;t always do it, but I&#039;m getting better! Thanks for the great article!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree that this article is more about envy than jealousy. My understanding is that envy is wanting what someone else has and jealousy is being afraid someone is going to take what you have. </p>
<p>Personally, my issues have been with jealousy more than with envy. I strongly believe that there are no such things as negative emotions &#8211; the only thing negative or positive is what we do with those emotions. I appreciate this article because it points out that we can learn from our uncomfortable emotions, perhaps more than we can from our joyful emotions. </p>
<p>When I am jealous, I understand that I am afraid of losing something I value, and if I&#39;m able to stay centered and balanced, I can use this emotions as a signpost that reminds me to appreciate the thing I value, without getting lost in the fear. I can&#39;t always do it, but I&#39;m getting better! Thanks for the great article!</p>
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		<title>By: uberVU - social comments</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 20:01:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Lori Deschene</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lori Deschene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 18:04:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it is possible to use jealousy to your positive advantage if you identify the root cause of your feelings. If you figure out what fuels your resentment (what, specifically, you&#039;re dissatisfied with in your own life that causes you to compare/compete) and than take action to address it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As to whether or not passion and purpose obliterate envy, I suspect that varies from person to person. We all experience and work through feelings differently based on a number of different factors.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thank you for the thought-provoking commentary!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it is possible to use jealousy to your positive advantage if you identify the root cause of your feelings. If you figure out what fuels your resentment (what, specifically, you&#39;re dissatisfied with in your own life that causes you to compare/compete) and than take action to address it.</p>
<p>As to whether or not passion and purpose obliterate envy, I suspect that varies from person to person. We all experience and work through feelings differently based on a number of different factors.</p>
<p>Thank you for the thought-provoking commentary!</p>
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		<title>By: jazzmann91</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 17:40:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree partially. I would say that jealousy could become envy by dropping the resentment, but to turn jealousy to your positive advantage, without the feeling disappearing, would be highly improbable.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I heartily agree that envy can be used as a personal carrot-on-a-stick enticement to achieve something positive, but even then envy is a distraction.  You are taking the time to compare, which is a form of division.  This is well used, while searching for what one really wants.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If you are lucky enough to be in touch with your purpose and know what you want, envy won&#039;t work anymore. The passion takes over and burns all comparisons away.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree partially. I would say that jealousy could become envy by dropping the resentment, but to turn jealousy to your positive advantage, without the feeling disappearing, would be highly improbable.</p>
<p>I heartily agree that envy can be used as a personal carrot-on-a-stick enticement to achieve something positive, but even then envy is a distraction.  You are taking the time to compare, which is a form of division.  This is well used, while searching for what one really wants.</p>
<p>If you are lucky enough to be in touch with your purpose and know what you want, envy won&#39;t work anymore. The passion takes over and burns all comparisons away.</p>
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		<title>By: Earl Kelly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Earl Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 17:22:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree, &quot;envy&quot; and &quot;jealousy&quot; in terms of definition are not the same,  but I think what she is trying to say is that they can both be used in this positive method. Jealousy and envy and are pretty much 2 sides of the same coin, one with more positive connotations than the other.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree, &#8220;envy&#8221; and &#8220;jealousy&#8221; in terms of definition are not the same,  but I think what she is trying to say is that they can both be used in this positive method. Jealousy and envy and are pretty much 2 sides of the same coin, one with more positive connotations than the other.</p>
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