The World Is Not Against Me

by Amanda K.

“If we look at the world with a love of life, the world will reveal its beauty to us.” -Daisaku Ikeda

TreeInPuddleMy late days at work are stressful, and my commute home usually allows me to relax and unwind. On this particular day, the sky opened up and torrential rain was falling when my stop came on the bus.

Of course I brought my umbrella, but the wind was making the rain hit me no matter which way I held it. It’s about an eight city block walk to my apartment from the stop I got off at, and I grumbled for a good while in my head about having to walk in the rain. I put the music on my iPod louder in my ears as I shuffled home as quickly as possible.

But about halfway through my walk home, it occurred to me to listen to the rain. I turned my iPod off and tuned in. Suddenly, everything around me was calming.

I could see the trees reflected in the puddles, shining brilliantly in the glare of car headlights. The air smelled pure and was easy to breathe into my lungs. I smiled and slowed my pace to really take it all in. My pants were getting soaked, but I didn’t even notice. It felt great to pay attention to the world instead of walking through it as fast as possible.

I connected with everyone everywhere walking home in the rain right then—felt sorrow for people who had no home to get warm in, and felt joy for everyone who was safe inside with their families. It was an amazing feeling and I’ll never forget it.

Once I stopped looking at the world as being against me and let it show me its serenity, my walk could have been an hour and I would not have cared.


Mande is a 24-year-old banker living in Bronx, NY. She is an avid reader, sometimes writer, and full-time thinker. You can reach her via e-mail  at the.mande@gmail.com or follow her on Twitter @themande.

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  • http://positivelypresent.typepad.com positivelypresent

    Great post! Thanks for sharing this, Mande.

  • themande

    Thank you :)

  • Lexi

    What an awesome message. I fight with my circumstances a lot, too, and I never really thought about it before. Maybe if I stop fighting so much I'll feel less stressed out. Anyways thank you for this!

  • Susi

    Such a beautiful post and a great reminder. Thank you!

  • Rono007

    Great post and a great reminder of how we block out our surroundings, take control, and do OUR will. In my eyes, you alligned (your) God's will with yours and saw the positive and not the negative. Truly living in the solution. Thanks again.

  • magneticmary

    This is beautiful, thank you.

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  • http://www.spencerstudio.com/ Robin

    What a great observation. It reminds me of a similar experience.
    About 20 years ago I was walking in the market area downtown and an unexpected shower started, people rushed by, chins down, collars up. Some even held newspapers or shopping bags over their heads, me included. Then I noticed a young man, maybe in his 20's, slightly long hair. He was walking at a normal pace, chin up slightly… a slight smile… enjoying the rain on his face.

    At that exact second my attitude about everything changed.

  • http://www.spencerstudio.com/ Robin

    What a great observation. It reminds me of a similar experience.
    About 20 years ago I was walking in the market area downtown and an unexpected shower started, people rushed by, chins down, collars up. Some even held newspapers or shopping bags over their heads, me included. Then I noticed a young man, maybe in his 20's, slightly long hair. He was walking at a normal pace, chin up slightly… a slight smile… enjoying the rain on his face.

    At that exact second my attitude about everything changed.

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