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Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway and Top 10 Insights of 2011

Important Note: The winners for this giveaway have already been chosen! You can purchase Tiny Buddha: Simple Wisdom for Life’s Hard Questions on Amazon.com. Also, be sure to subscribe to Tiny Buddha for free daily or weekly emails!

The winners:

  • DeniseJane2010
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  • Printpopceo
  • Happy almost 2012!

    It’s been an exciting year for Tiny Buddha.… Read More

    Break Up

    Learning from the Relationships That Didn’t Work Out

    “Stay away from what might have been and look at what will be.” ~Marsha Petrie Sue

    In my mere thirty years on this planet, I have had lots of boyfriends. Lots—hundreds. First one: Pat McGovern, first grade. We were in different classrooms, but we each took a casual stroll to the bathrooms at the same time.… Read More

    Love

    The Foundation of Love: Releasing Judgments and Expectations

    “Love is saying, ‘I feel differently’ instead of ‘you’re wrong.’” ~Unknown

    We seek it, want it, need it yet it eludes so many of us: genuine heart-felt unconditional love. Not infatuation, lust, or what you think makes you happy, but true intimacy at the level of your soul.

    How do we create deep authentic connections with those who matter most?… Read More

    I Am Beautiful

    The Courage to Accept Your Own Beauty

    “To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh

    As I was looking in the mirror, I was feeling the soft curves of my body, all the way down to the flesh on my belly to where it met my hips.… Read More

    Helping Hand

    The Benefits of Kindness: What We Get and What We Give

    “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” ~Plato

    Ever since elementary school, I have had a built in network of friends, family, and colleagues who make up my rock solid foundation of support.

    But recently, I’ve been struggling with being alone and desperate for human interaction—more specifically conversation and affirmation; and conversation that includes affirmation of my creative choices would be the holy grail of friendship.Read More

    Love

    Becoming the Person You Want to Find

    “Pursue compassion and self-awareness. Then, one day, love will tap you lightly on the shoulder and say ‘I’m here.’” ~Unknown.

    The other day, I met a boy. With one glance, I was spell-bound, overtaken with that “This is the One” type feeling, the sensation they say you will have when you “just know.”

    I’ve only had this feeling once before in my 25 years, and since he ended up marrying someone else, I knew this strong intuition was not always an indication of reciprocity or even truth.… Read More

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    9 Reasons to Order the Tiny Buddha Book: Last Day for Bonus Items!

    UPDATE: Please note the pre-order promotion for the Peace and Purpose Bonus Pack has now expired now that the book is officially available for purchase.

    As you may have noticed from the various ads, tweets, and Facebook updates, I’ve been running a promotional campaign over the past month leading up to today—the official on-sale date for my first book Tiny Buddha: Simple Wisdom for Life’s Hard Questions.… Read More

    Balance

    Balancing Home and Work: When Life Is in the Distractions

    “It is not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.” -Unknown

    My son has chickenpox.

    It started a few days ago and today is his third day at home.

    As a work at home mom who is her own boss, I’m fortunate that I can be at home with my son instead of having to ask my employer for time off work.… Read More

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    Tiny Buddha Twitter Party with Jonathan Fields and Gabrielle Bernstein

    If I lived in a massive house and owned numerous private jets, I would personally fly all of you out to Los Angeles for a party to celebrate the launch of my first book, Tiny Buddha: Simple Wisdom for Life’s Hard Questions.

    But since I only have a $10, a fortune from a cookie, and a button in my wallet, I hope you’ll join me for a Twitter party instead!… Read More

    Love Yourself

    You Already Know Your Soul Mate

    “You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” ~Buddha

    During the summer, my husband and I decided to take our lovely nieces and nephew out for a day-of-fun in the city. I expected a day filled with fun, laughter, and connection; I was in store for much more—a lesson in love and truth, told by my eleven-year-old niece.… Read More

    Thanks

    50 Ways to Show Gratitude for the People in Your Life

    “Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.” –William Arthur Ward

    The holiday season generally brings us closer to people. Sometimes that closeness reminds us how much we love each other. Sometimes it reminds us that we drive each other crazy, as family often does.… Read More

    Hugging

    Turning Forgiveness Inside Out: Moving on from Anger

    “We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the life that is waiting for us.” ~Joseph Campbell

    I stood in front of my father, man to man, and demanded an apology. His long absence and lack of interest during my formative years had burned within me a resentment that wouldn’t quit.… Read More

    Hate Hugging

    I Hate Hugging: Getting Over the Fear of Intimacy

    “It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are.” ~E.E. Cummings

    I was a shy kid. My mom said that when I was in pre-school, the teacher asked all of the kids to hold hands and I said, “No thanks, I’ll just hold my own.”

    That may have been the beginning of my aversion towards human contact.… Read More

    Holding Hands

    10 Ways Overcome Conflicts in Relationships and Grow Together

    “You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.” ~Jon Kabat-Zinn

    About six months into a serious relationship with my boyfriend, we started experiencing major conflict. Fighting over small things, flipping out over misunderstandings, we just couldn’t seem to get on the same page about anything. This caused me to think about relationship conflict in general, what causes it, and how to deal with it.… Read More

    Heart break

    Knowing When to Walk Away from Unrequited Love

    “Love does not obey our expectations; it obeys our intentions.” ~Lloyd Strom

    To say that love hasn’t obeyed my expectations would be the understatement of the century.

    I have not been lucky in love. I’ve been blessed with some amazing moments over the years, but somehow have managed to choose partners who did not want what I wanted, did not feel what I felt, and did not want to walk beside me into a future together.… Read More

    Choose Love

    Choose Love, Choose Life

    “I believe that every single event in life that happens is an opportunity to choose love over fear.” ~Oprah Winfrey 

    Facing fear came in the form of the death of my father in 1997. He was diagnosed HIV positive and at the time, the world saw this as a death sentence, and so it was.… Read More

    Resentment

    How to Release and Prevent Resentment in Your Relationships

    “Never apologize for showing feelings. When you do so, you apologize for the truth.” ~Benjamin Disraeli”

    We often experience resentment toward other people when we find it hard to forgive them and hold onto unspoken pain.

    Whenever we feel we’ve been treated unfairly, judged, or wronged, we have a very powerful internal reaction.… Read More

    compassion

    Why We Sometimes Choose Judgment Instead of Compassion

    “In separateness lies the world’s great misery, in compassion lies the world’s true strength.” ~Buddha

    We talk about boys these days at our dinner table.

    Boys are sneaking into our home now—or at least the idea of boys. Although I love watching my daughters grow up—it’s much more fun (and much more challenging) than I ever could have imagined—I sometimes feel a certain sadness as their days of early childhood innocence slip behind us.… Read More

    Move On

    Lost Love: What It Means to Move On

    “‘Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.” ~Alfred. Lord Tennyson

    Certain individuals and events impact and leave their mark on us. Some feels warm and fuzzy, outright blessed, while others hit us like bullets to the heart.

    I met a special someone. It was my first taste of love and I was sheepishly drunk with it.… Read More

    New Friends

    11 Ways to Turn Strangers into Friends

    “Fear makes strangers of people who would be friends.” ~Shirley Maclaine

    Up until a year ago, I saw the world as a place where very few doors opened for me. At first I thought it was due to being extremely introverted. But as time went on, I started to struggle with making friends.… Read More

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