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    ryan
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    hi hollybolly 🙂

    thank you so much for your advice. we are really similar!!! my family is really loving and supporting too, but i guess it’s just my bad choice in friends that has gotten me stuck in this rut …

    definitely trying to flee the situation. i am moving out next semester which hopefully will help me recover. also, your tip on saying positive things to myself is so perfect for me. i’m always confused on where to start when it comes to loving myself, and it seems like a really practical start. i will definitely practice that starting today and try to remove as much negativity from my mind as possible.

    seeing it as moving on and disengaging is seriously so true because i don’t want to destroy what we had from childhood, and also disengaging lets me separate myself from him despite seeing him everyday. just the idea of moving and hearing from someone who has gone through something like this before and made it out gives me so much hope

    thank you so much for your support and encouragement!!!!

    #74571
    ryan
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    dear will,
    thank you so much for your response!!

    it’s so comforting to know that i’m not alone in this, and your advice on doing things that make me a little uncomfortable and not beating myself up too much for having bad days really moved me. i’m seeing a counselor for this issue, but this is the first time anyone’s given me such clear detailed instructions, and it’s literally such a relief to know how to deal with this situation.

    and yes! i already made the move to share an apartment with a different group of guys next semester, so i’m hoping that will put an even greater distance between us (assuming that my current roommate won’t come and find us ….).

    just reading your advice gave me so much comfort and hope. it means so much to me. thank you

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