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  • #125656
    cyrus
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    @anita – it felt alright depending on the situation. sometimes i’d be angry and other times, id be OK.


    @nina
    – i have quite a few close friends/family who i can share my problems with. i miss the long association aspect and having a large group of close friends who i can share long term memories with and have fun with in times of wedding etc. currently i have friends from various groups.

    im having trouble translating my thoughts into words.

    #125641
    cyrus
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    Umm not sure about that. The issue is feeling I don’t have enough friends and childhood friends. I’ve learnt that being the centre of attention is not always good.

    Effort as in texting and making plans to meet up.

    #125636
    cyrus
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    I was the center of attention in most situations and even in my family I am. Therefore, not sure why im feeling the insecurity feeling. I guess I like having a group of old friends I can share common memories with. Also I put in a lot of effort with people and people don’t necessarily reciprocate in the same way.

    #125633
    cyrus
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    Thanks for the reply Anita.

    Perhaps I am inaccurately assuming people are happy and have more friends etc.

    well I am quite a social person and always like to be the center-of-attention. for e.g. I would be paranoid if someone doesnt text me, include me in plans or starts befriending people i dont like. i don’t mind “chilling” out by myself but do like feeling important by my friends – not so much by my family. i actually prefer socialising than hanging out with family at times incase i miss out on gossip, making new friends and all that.

    I wasn’t a lonely child surprisingly as I always had friends/people around me.

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