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Kizzy Fields

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    Kizzy Fields
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    Sorry to hear of your troubles. However this sounds exactly like what I went through with the father of my and his only three children. First off let me say that two years is enough time to realize you want to be married. He hasn’t made that proclamation (dead end). Secondly, his anger issues need to be dealt with before he could even be in any type of relationship (he can’t give you what you “need” if he still has unresolved problems). I spent ten years trying to get my children’s father to love me and get it right. I gave him three babies and we still fought a lot. The thing that stands out the most here, is “I was always the one to make things right again.” It always only lasted for a little while, but it sustained me, and I kept loving him. Bottom line here is, the relationship will be,and in my case “always was,” about him and beneficial for him. Until it wasn’t anymore. My advice: Look out for number one (You) and keep it moving. If he can’t (or doesn’t want to) live without you, he (not you) will make the necessary steps to make it work. And not just asking for your forgiveness or asking you back. The necessary “steps” (working on him to be better for “YOU”) to make it work.

    #118756
    Kizzy Fields
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    He called me on his phone with her listening in on the speaker. They both said and called me some terrible things (jealous of their relationship, not prettier than her etc. )I feel so betrayed and rejected by him. I guess I am embarrassed too that it ended with him treating me like this in front of her. And he is putting his relationship on display in front of his family and friends that we were just a week ago on display with. I feel
    like I’m being talked about every time I walk pass her, and everyone who knows.

    • This reply was modified 7 years, 5 months ago by Kizzy Fields.
    #118752
    Kizzy Fields
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    I forgot to add that I am also very hurt and my anxiety has really been acting up since. I feel like I am going to have a nervous breakdown. I felt like this while at work the other day, I was having a hard time while driving the bus (filled with children ). I wanted to cry while I was driving. I get so nervous too and I can’t stop thinking about him and him and her. Sometimes I zone out with my thoughts of him and him and her, even while driving.

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