Hi Anita

Thank you for your response, you have understood our situation perfectly. I think you’re right, we are growing farther apart, and we have talked about it. He said he would slow down but it’s not the first time he’s said it. And nothing has changed.

I’ve tried to be more understanding of his situation, as you said, it is stressefull and linked to his consumption of substances. But I really do care for him and I know if We continue like this we won’t be together much longer, but I don’t imagine myself without him, even though it might be better for us .. I just don’t know what to do to help.