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Lindsay Harrington

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  • #131891
    Lindsay Harrington
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    You are correct in saying he will do anything to serve him. It gets even worse! He contacted me again to tell me never mind, I just wanted to apologize. I dont actually want to get back together.

    #131701
    Lindsay Harrington
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    Thank you anita,

    I knew this day was going to come and I am happy that I am strong enough to tell him that ship has sailed. I will never be able to trust his word. I decided to dig for the truth from him. He supposed fling with the other girl was not a fling at all. In fact, he introduced her to his whole family. This makes me believe that he did not end it with her, she did. And now he is crawling back to me. In truth, I will never know because he is NOT an honest person. I will never know his motives, and I will also never know what would happen in the future when another woman entered his life.

    #131689
    Lindsay Harrington
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    Well,

    He contacted me. He said he broke it off with the other girl because he missed me so much. He admitted it had nothing to do with the phone and that it was all his fault. Now what?

    #128417
    Lindsay Harrington
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    I think my problems with this break up stem from the fact that I was so sure that he was the one. I had never dated anyone that I had so much in common with and felt so comfortable around. Even my friends and family said that they had never seen me so comfortable and happy. I think it’s difficult for me to look into the future and think about finding someone with that level of compatibility. I guess my hope is to find the compatibility again but also find someone who is mature enough to take blame for their wrongdoing.

    #128315
    Lindsay Harrington
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    Thank you everyone. I know in my heart that I should not contact him. I feel like I’m just
    Stuck in the past and remembering the good times instead of focusing on the fact that this man left me. He obviously didn’t want to fight for me and I deserve a man who will.

    #128095
    Lindsay Harrington
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    Hello everyone,

    I have used the past month or so to do some healing. I have had no contact with the man I was dumped by. I am proud of myself that I have been so strong. We share mutual friends and I heard that he has been talking about me. He told my friend that he misses me and apparently is an emotional mess. Is it silly for me to think about reaching out to him? If he wanted me, wouldnt he contact me first? Is he just manipulative and is telling my friends what they want to hear? Did things not work out with the other girl? He has remained adamant that this is still about me reading his text messages. Any advice would help.

    #125465
    Lindsay Harrington
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    Thank you so much for all of your support. It is been a great help to me during this time. Due to social media and the fact that we share a mutual friend, I have discovered that yes he is now dating this woman. It’s a pretty awful slap in the face especially since I gave him such a great life, friends, and my family.

    #125396
    Lindsay Harrington
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    He came and got his things while I was away over the weekend. Didn’t leave a note didn’t say anything just took his stuff and left. I think with this really teaches me is that you don’t really know someone until things get hard. Up until this moment we had never had a fight or disagreement.

    #125345
    Lindsay Harrington
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    To be honest with you the words that you wrote in the first paragraph have been the ones that have been able to get me through this situation. Particularly the line about him Side tracking me and putting all the blame on me. I think the bottom line is is that I caught him and instead of taking the blame he’s running away. In the long run he wouldn’t of been a good partner anyway because true maturity is when you can take responsibility for your own actions.

    #125315
    Lindsay Harrington
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    I have read what you said over and over just to try to make sense of things. No matter how many friends, family members, and strangers on the internet tell me that this is not my fault, I keep the blame on myself. Maybe I am putting too much emphasis on the “what could have been” if I didn’t look in the phone and had communicated my suspicions to him directly.

    #125313
    Lindsay Harrington
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    It was not my intent to ignore you. I think I just don’t know the nuances of this site just yet. I am brand new. I truly appreciate your kind words.

    #125306
    Lindsay Harrington
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    The feelings of guilt are so strong. I feel completely responsible for ruining my relationship. I feel like I hurt someone that I love and it’s tearing me apart.

    #125232
    Lindsay Harrington
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    It’s the next day now. I am still overwhelmed with guilt about the whole situation and beating myself up about it. Maybe I’m too naïve to believe that there are people in the world that will tell you that you mean the world and the then the next week pick up and leave

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