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  • What were the biggest challenges in your life so far? How did you overcome them? What were the thoughts, practises, people, situations that helped you the most in handling things? This is different for everyone but would love to see people share their experiences.

  • Dear Cyrus,

    Long associations form with time. Sometimes they start in adult hood only and within 2-3 years, they become deep provided we spend lot of time with that person.

    So perhaps best way for you to get that group of sorts is to build stronger relationships with the friends you already have. Imagine someday you will get married or your kid…[Read more]

  • Dear Esther,

    Its great you have posted here. Welcome 🙂 After going through your posts, the following thoughts came to my mind :-

    1) You want to feel a sense of ease with yourself

    2) You crave more intimacy with others but can’t seem to open up that much because of trust issues

    3) You want your mom to push you more to be independent

    4) The…[Read more]

  • 1) This lovely post
    2) Parents, siblings
    3) Boyfriend
    4) Few close friends
    5) A beautiful home
    6) My bookshelf
    7) Oppurtunities
    8) Simple things in life

  • Dear bluesoul,

    It’s usually any of the three. It would be good if you could ensure that 1 and 2 are taken care of. The female body is quite complex and irregular menses rather common for many women. Do you have any particular activity that helps you relax and feel more comfortable?

    Often our thoughts, especially negative ones have an impact on…[Read more]

  • It’s usually any of the three. It would be good if you could ensure that 1 and 2 are taken care of. The female body is quite complex and irregular menses rather common for many women. Do you have any particular activity that helps you relax and feel more comfortable?

    Often our thoughts, especially negative ones have an impact on our bodies too…[Read more]

  • Dear bluesoul,

    Irregular menses usually occur because –

    1) Poor lifestyle habits – nutrition issues, lack of good sleep, hardly any exercise.

    2) Weight issues – underweight, overweight or obese

    3) psychological problems leading to high stress levels – such as depression, anxiety

    All these can mess up your cycle.

    It is best you visit a…[Read more]

  • Hey Cyrus,

    Do you mean that you want people in your life, such as friends or a family member like a cousin, sibling whom you are really close to? By close to, I mean someone whom you can open up to, share secrets with, someone who knows you really well for a long time and you can be free with them?

    When you see people with childhood friends,…[Read more]

  • Dear Magnolialuloo,

    Not trying to make you feel bad or guilty in some way but asking you to explain the situation a bit better.

    What exactly was wrong with him messaging a girl happy new year at midnight? Was the content of photos and videos shared personal?

    Do you reckon it’s possible that after she told him she likes him, he may have spoken…[Read more]

  • Dear Magnolialuloo,

    Not trying to make you feel bad or guilty in some way but asking you to explain the situation a bit better.

    What exactly was wrong with him messaging a girl happy new year at midnight? Was the content of photos and videos shared personal?

    Do you reckon it’s possible that after she told him she likes him, he may have spoken…[Read more]

  • Dear Magnolialuloo,

    Not trying to make you feel bad or guilty in some way but asking you to explain the situation a bit better.

    What exactly was wrong with him messaging a girl happy new year at midnight? Was the content of photos and videos shared personal?

    Do you reckon it’s possible that after she told him she likes him, he may have spoken…[Read more]

  • Dear Poppy,

    You have pretty much understood what needs to be done as per the current situation of you being at home with her.

    Disengage, superficial engagement at best.

    When she gives a jibe, it’s best to ignore her and respond passively, a blank look, a nod, a hmm..If you feel really irritated, you can answer her back but it will be fruitless…[Read more]

  • Dear Poppy

    I understand your need to talk to her regarding these issues but I would suggest you do this at a time when your own side is completely sorted, meaning you don’t have to depend on her for a home or other things. Hypothetically you went and talked to her regarding the fight, what will be the outcome anyway? You will feel good that you…[Read more]

  • Dear Poppy

    I understand your need to talk to her regarding these issues but I would suggest you do this at a time when your own side is completely sorted, meaning you don’t have to depend on her for a home or other things. Hypothetically you went and talked to her regarding the fight, what will be the outcome anyway? You will feel good that you…[Read more]

  • Dear Poppy

    I understand your need to talk to her regarding fthese issues but I would suggest you do this at a time when your own side is completely sorted, meaning you don’t have to depend on her for a home or other things. Then your words will have far greater weightage on her and she will see you less as a lost kid trying to lecture her.

    She…[Read more]

  • hello world

  • Nina Sakura posted a new activity comment 5 days, 15 hours ago

    well VJ I am based in Orissa at the moment, in my twenties and pursuing further studies. Spirituality and its underlying psychology is of interest to me.

  • Dear Poppy,

    What everyone outside of you is saying is perspective. This is something which will help you get a clearer view of the situation. As you said, you are more emotionally involved and hence can’t make note of every perspective on your own. In the end, the decision must be yours.

    If this man is truly the one, then 6 months of waiting…[Read more]

  • Dear Poppy,

    What everyone outside of you is saying is perspective. This is something which will help you get a clearer view of the situation. As you said, you are more emotionally involved and hence can’t make note of every perspective on your own. In the end, the decision must be yours.

    If this man is truly the one, then 6 months of waiting…[Read more]

  • Dear Poppy,

    For now, it is best you focus on establishing yourself and growing emotionally strong. This means working towards establishing boundaries, growing career wise which is something you have mentioned in other posts too. Since it is not possible for you to have a physical distance from your mom till april, it would be helpful if you has…[Read more]

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