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  • #64248
    p22
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    Hi
    Yes, I agree with Krista. Be honest with your feelings. I have been in similar situation as yours. I met someone I liked at office too and I end up liking him.. Later I figured that he liked me too but wasn’t showing anything. Sadly, my story ended soon as we couldn’t take it anywhere. But I think you should confess him and see where it goes. May be this guy likes you but scared to confess and caught up in what he has decided in his own head to do an arrange marriage.

    #62266
    p22
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    Hi
    Don’t feel you are a waste. I graduated in 2011 and have wasted three years of my life… I have worked on and off but never found stable employment. My family wants me to go back to school and get stable career but I cannot somehow convince because I am still looking for what I really like. I do have potential to do lot of things but I am my own enemy and have been stuck and cannot find an escape..

    But I try to volunteer and do different thingss.. I would say listen to your inner voice and keep going:)

    #61927
    p22
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    Hi
    I relate my self to you.. I have been stuck in similar situation too for past two years.. I also wanna help people and want career which helps me with that.I guess its only our fear which stops us but I think it is good to think rationally at times and make decision. I agree that if we really wanna help someone we can make an effort and always volunteer.

    #60723
    p22
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    Hi there,
    I agree with both of you. I feel that I am the odd one out in this world. I dont have many friends atleast in the city where I live and the ones I have love them but they don’t really get me. It is really challenging and hard when you are so different from crowd.. Sometimes I feel, I say things in which no one is interested and don’t wanna talk about. I am emotional person too and people dont get it specially girls I feel sometimes because they think you can get emo only in romantic relationships.. I wish you luck in finding like minded people.

    Dont’t feel alone and just keep going!!!

    #60135
    p22
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    Thanks for posting this. This is truly inspiring for any girl

    #56805
    p22
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    Hi
    I think my biggest concern is not to hurt him in anyway. My feelings were gone and now idk how i feel… I need to figure my own feelings… Also, I can only wait for sometimes because I feel like I am just stuck and going no where..

    Well I guess I will give it a chance and tell him how I feel right now

    #56655
    p22
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    Hi
    I agree with Moongal. I have never been in relationships and I just completed my quarter life lol( yeah 25).. It used to bother me before because I always wanted to expereince relationships as everyone around me had someone.But sometimes I feel I am lucky because not everyone in relationship is happy, there are dramas and insecruities and things like that. I feel like now I would never get chance to feel how is to be with someone.. But idkkk

    Dont think you are alone, there are plenty of people who are single and never had anyone.. And I know its hard but I am sure you will get to experience it soon:)

    I have amy question too if anyone can help. I met this guy last year, we were friends for sometime as we worked together and I felt something.. I tried taking it somewhere but we drifted and was bit impatient so ended it..Now he is back again and been wanting me back.. I tried keep in touch just as a friend..But he still likes me.. I am not sure how I feel anymore coz its been an year.. He is really nice but I am not sure if I like him like that.. But I am also single and lonely so its so hard to resist him.. Also I think we both have fears and are scared.. I have never been in relationship so I would want a guy to help me with this but idk if he can..

    Please advise if I should let him go or try..

    #56393
    p22
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    Hi
    Thanks a lot for sharing your own experience.I am actually considered to be an introvert by lot of people. I don’t connect with lot of people on day to day basis or I would say haven’t found my people yet.. But I like around people and sharing and listening their views.. Also I like working with people rather than numbers.. I am not sure why but have always been drawn towards counselling..I agree with you that no job is perfect and I can always help people where I am.. But I feel culture and people matters a lot to me.. After experiencing trauma of corporate world,, I am not sure if it is for me.. I cant be mean and bitchy to people.

    Thanks again for your advice.. I will look into employee wellness..

    #56148
    p22
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    Hi
    I feel your pain.. I have been in Usa about 7 yrs ago and still dont have many close frends.. I feel like something is wrong with me.. I value friendships and always look for deeper connections… Dont just need people for party and hangout but someone with whom i can share myself and also connect to some level..Its so hard to find like minded ppl..I find ppl but they dont stay forever or already have group of frends and just drift and some frends I am close with are in diff city or country… Its been years and i still dont feel like home

    I would say just keep trying…

    #56028
    p22
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    Hi Steph,
    I understand your dilemma.. But sometimes you have to take risks in life. I would say quitting a job is not bad as long as you have clear vision of what are your next steps and you take a calculated risk.. I mean you can find something part time while you work on your writing skills or find something in that field…

    Follow your heart and passion.. I understand this because I believe in this. You are lucky atleast you know what your passion is.. I am still trying to find mine.

    Hope it helps!

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