Firstly, I would like to Thank everyone for sparing enough time to read my post and responding to it understanding the situation I am in. It feels great that these advices make sense according to my situation. So far for months I’ve looked for many solutions and nothing worked better as i expected. I would like to follow Peter’s words wisely, creating an empty space in my mind for the negative and positive feelings for my present situation seems to be going better. I won’t say it helped me overcome the problem in a second, but it did help me a bit today in improving myself and focusing on what is present right in front of me. And i know that improvement won’t happen in a day. It takes time and patience, so I’ll do my best to be patient. Most of the time I create scenarios in mind like “what-ifs, maybe,etc” which ends up screwing me the whole day mentally and physically Making me exhausted. Since its not possible to change everythingstt once, For now I’ll learn to focus on my thinking process. Thanks to Everyone. Can anyone tell me how do i get rid of this weird insecure feeling when i see this girl laughing with Other boys? It makes me broken from inside Everytime i see her with other boys. I know that it’s wrong thinking from my side. But how do i get rid of this weird selfish feeling which brings me down to broken heart? And further how do i respond to this girl if she approaches me in Future for anything? I’ll be honest here – I do still have feelings and i still think of some ‘maybe’s’ and I’m quite furious at her now but i have to give up on her to lead a better life. So how do i respond in future?

Hello Everyone. Thank you for the advice Anita and Inky. I appreciate that you’ve spared time to read my situation. And perhaps Having No contact and Distancing myself is the only choice i have now. I’m quite attached to her that i still have the desire of being in love with her and staying with her but i feel it’ll only make things worse for me and her. I’ll distance myself and move ahead. Thank you for taking time.