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  • August 15, 2017 at 9:04 am #164038
    UnknownAnne
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    Hi there Zee,

    I guess I have a situation like you now (more or less), I constantly open this website to seek for a help and I want to share my situation right now.

    Well I get fired on the spot in 31 July, and they asked me to not coming again in the next day, half of my office mate is also cut down, they said they going bankrupt, so they cant paid our salary anymore, it was so shocking for me, at first I just laughing and space-out, until now I tried to make my thought positively, I work out, eat like I always do, do something that I like, but…. like you… I cant….. I want to try it again, but something is holding me up. I try to find a job, but I dont find it yet. I know my family and friends support me, however the outside me is cheerful, and inside I seek for help.

    I personally knows how that feel tho…

     

    Sincerely,

    Anne

     

    November 19, 2016 at 11:26 am #120729
    UnknownAnne
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    Hi guys,

    Thank you for teeling me what to do, I really mean it. I dissappear about a week I guess. I feel so embarrassed that I dont act like an adult. I’m not mature enough. Now I already accepting her condition. And now I’m happy I will he/she in next year. I think last time I am in undenial position, so I couldn’t think clear. And a lot of things telling me, we are not the one who control the things up. So yeah….
    I talked to her and support her now. We cry together and I am happy she is rely on me too. I dont know what is this feeling is. But this is really warm and joyful. Thank you, thank you once again for your advice.

    With so much love!
    -Anne

    November 11, 2016 at 7:04 am #120115
    UnknownAnne
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    Dear Anita,

    Yeahh.. i think so too.
    But still I need a good advice what to do and what should I do in this kind of situation.

    Thanks Anita, you read it and you reply me. Thank you so much.

    November 11, 2016 at 1:10 am #120104
    UnknownAnne
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    Dear Anita,

    Hmm what you are asking are a good question. Yeah I feel because she got pregnant and still dont know what to do with the baby.
    I feel like she is not ready yet and because in our environment pregnancy before marriage is taboo,
    Even though if she already gives us a reason behind that. If you ask if she broke their trust, well I must said yes.
    Cause her parents trust her that she wouldn’t have baby before marriage.
    But she did in quite shocking time.

    November 10, 2016 at 8:59 pm #120096
    UnknownAnne
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    Dear Anita,

    She will have wedding ceremony by this month. And the wedding reception early 2017.
    When she told me about this, actually I already talk to her, crying with her and saw that she is really disappointed in her self to let this incident happen. I want to help her, but I still can’t get myself together. The fact she already have sexual activity with her BF, I dont really care, the things is she let her pregnant. I dont understand about this.. and let all the people trust her in vain….

    October 1, 2015 at 5:46 pm #84540
    UnknownAnne
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    Dear Anita,

    Really thank you so much. You indeed help me.
    Youre the one who clear my mind whenever im confused and need help.
    I feel so help in this forum.
    Even tho i never meet you in person, but i know yyoure a good person.
    Thank you, thank you so much.

    With love,
    Anne

    May 28, 2015 at 9:21 am #77423
    UnknownAnne
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    To Anita and Bethany.

    Thanks for your support until now, i’ve been thinking hard lately and wondering enough.
    And i’ll think to try to consult a therapist, i just need the one that seem trusted.
    I think im ready for the new start!
    I just get enough of this situation, and i’ll try to get all the positive vibe from my past.
    Hope i can change for the better start!
    Also i dont want to rush in any relationship, i will wait and take it easy.
    I believe if i change to a better person, my life become full of colors!

    I feel like get struck by something inside me, that think
    “f*ck of about it, i dont care anymore bout that. This is me and so what”
    Human make mistake and i am also human.

    Thanks for being here and give an advice for me! I feel much more better! <3 <3

    May 27, 2015 at 8:13 am #77363
    UnknownAnne
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    to be truth. the wall is make me crazy, and yes make me sad.
    i want to try it, but… back again. should i? and can i?
    I dont know.

    May 27, 2015 at 8:08 am #77362
    UnknownAnne
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    To my dear Anita,
    Thank you for your kind words,
    i also thinking to consult a therapist, but i dont know if i really need that, my head is just full of doubt.
    i fear of not being good enough, doubt people, and not easily be friends with ppl.
    i am an ambivert person, i like to go to adventure,
    but in the same time i dont like to be surrounded by new ppl around, makes me tired.

    And can i get your another advice?
    why do the boys started to back off as soon as i said
    “to fast for me to take another level, i need more time”
    and
    “it maybe hard for me to fall in love again”.

    Am i the problem in here? because of how i tell them??

    Thanks, i hope you reply it.

    May 25, 2015 at 8:23 pm #77247
    UnknownAnne
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    Hahaha, Rodrigo i am too, when our mind feels like chaotic and think like f*ck it of all the things, it feels like clearly and completely take us to the more positive way! way to go dude, i know you can! just dont fall in to deep. Whew it feel like when i reply this, i am healing inside too, im afraid to start a new relationship, i dont want to feel that hurt feeling again. But thanks to you too, you make me think positive! Thanks!

    May 25, 2015 at 8:18 pm #77245
    UnknownAnne
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    Thank you for your advice. im learning how my past and others things will make me stronger. Maybe i just isnt ready for a new relationship, i must make my mind and clearly think that my past is something good experience. Well i hope i can give it a try!

    May 25, 2015 at 8:52 am #77221
    UnknownAnne
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    Hi rodrigo, im happy you want to share your experience through this.
    I ever loved someone for 7 years, at first only adore that guy, but the feeling growing.
    And in the end he choose another instead me in front of him.
    im crying for 2 weeks and after that completely move on, but still the scars in me.
    All i know is you must give all your complaint, like what you feels, what you think, why it happen, why this, that, all about that. Just spurt it out everything, let it go, not keeping inside the feeling right now, let it go and accept it. i know it was hurt.
    But you must do that, or it will kill you slowly. dont focus on her that much, you still have a friends and families who support you, you got a life to move on. It takes time to heal, but dont let that feeling ate you up.

    If i can move on, so you do!
    Anne

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