“Life is a process of becoming. A combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.” -Anais Nin
So often in life we cling to ideas of who we are–jobs, relationships, and living situations that we feel define us. In a way this feels safe. When you know exactly who you are it’s clearer what you’re supposed to do.
But there is no such thing as what you’re supposed to do. You can define moment-to-moment who you want to be, and how you want to live your life. Every second that passes is an opportunity to improve upon the last.
If you face uncertainty today, instead of focusing on what you’re losing, shift your attention to the excitement of who you could become–both for you and other people.
If you lose your job, you have a chance to reconnect with your passions. If your hours get cut, you have more time to spend with your family. If a relationship changes, you can reconnect with yourself and strengthen your sense of independence.
Let yourself become today. You never know who you’ll grow into.
