Hi, everyone!
I’ve been talking to this guy for about 4 months now; stopped talking in between for a little over a month because we weren’t on the same page. Anyway, I like him – he has a good personality and there is nothing about him that makes me want to stop talking to him. I’ve met up with him twice and both times I enjoyed his company. We text every day, we’re both open books, and there’s always something to talk about. We’re not afraid of opening up to each other, even going about very personal details in our lives, which I very much appreciate. He says simple things that make me smile and sometimes I feel a bit of butterflies. However, here’s the thing… Even though I enjoyed his company in person and we got along, I was happy, but I didn’t feel any sparks or the strong butterfly feeling. I think I’m scared of getting into another relationship (my last relationship lasted for almost 4 years), and the idea of committing to someone again terrifies me. I am content being by myself. Am I thinking too far ahead? Should I give it more time for my feelings to develop? He’s such a great guy and he knows that I don’t want to be rushed, and he understands and respects that. I don’t want to mess this up. Any insights from you guys would be amazing 🙂