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Dating: I like him, but I'm scared

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    Anonymous
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    Hi, everyone!

    I’ve been talking to this guy for about 4 months now; stopped talking in between for a little over a month because we weren’t on the same page. Anyway, I like him – he has a good personality and there is nothing about him that makes me want to stop talking to him. I’ve met up with him twice and both times I enjoyed his company. We text every day, we’re both open books, and there’s always something to talk about. We’re not afraid of opening up to each other, even going about very personal details in our lives, which I very much appreciate. He says simple things that make me smile and sometimes I feel a bit of butterflies. However, here’s the thing… Even though I enjoyed his company in person and we got along, I was happy, but I didn’t feel any sparks or the strong butterfly feeling. I think I’m scared of getting into another relationship (my last relationship lasted for almost 4 years), and the idea of committing to someone again terrifies me. I am content being by myself. Am I thinking too far ahead? Should I give it more time for my feelings to develop? He’s such a great guy and he knows that I don’t want to be rushed, and he understands and respects that. I don’t want to mess this up. Any insights from you guys would be amazing 🙂

    #105754
    Anonymous
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    Dear infralugel:

    I think you are too far ahead and should give it more time, continue to communicate with him about your fear as well. Go on and on communicating and sharing. Establish a good friendship with him, a friendship with a touch of Maybe. Go slowly, low pressure. And post here anytime you need me to tell you to… slow down.

    anita

    #105767
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    @anita – A friendship with a touch of Maybe. I love that. I will definitely come back on this thread if I have more concerns. Thank you <3

    #105784
    Anonymous
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    You are welcome, infralugel. Looking forward to your next post.
    anita

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