January 10, 2017 at 11:31 am #125009
hi i am again here ..today i checked my fb account after 5 days ..i dont use fb much .i saw my ex unfriended me ..i am feeling hurt alot..i keep thinking about him all day long..
i want to add here that my ex said me he loved me in reply of my I LOVE YOU and he said me that he is relationship(i wrote all story above .) . thn he askd me to b his friends which i refused to stay as friends …thn he said it means we are not going to meet again?i said ya ….
then he went after two days of crying all day …3rd day i asked one of my male friend to meet me .and he saw me walking with him after that i recieved some msgs and a call from him .but later he said it was late messages which were unintentionally and unknowingly sent .after 2 days of that ..again i was with same male friend .and he saw me again …
i miss him …he wasnt good with me but even though
hJanuary 10, 2017 at 12:08 pm #125013
It’s okay, give yourself time to heal after processing the pain and confusion. It’s normal to miss him despite how awful he was. Be strong. You are going to be okay. Post any time here.January 10, 2017 at 12:14 pm #125014
when he texted me i felt that he want me and missing me .but when he saw me outside he showed himself that he doesnt even know me….i dont know why i feel so much love for him….i dont want to love himmm 🙁January 10, 2017 at 12:17 pm #125015
It is common to form an attachment, and so, to miss a person who is not good for us. So we don’t go by emotion alone but apply logic as well, and figure something like: I miss him but he is bad for me, so better not contact him.
anitaJanuary 23, 2017 at 3:33 am #125953
hallo everyone .
i am writing here again. me and my ex lives in same building now and two times he saw me with another outside of building .my ex texted me 5 days before to invite me for a cup of tea or coffee with my one more friend .i told him that i dont drink tea or coffee at night because i wont be able to sleep .he added that its up to u .u can for for company..bcz he called my one of best friend and i had to go .but dint drink coffee or tea as i told them my reason .
we were his room and i dint talk to him i was just talking little bit with my friend..
i couldnt understand why he called us ?or even me ?was that to contact with me ..
because after my breakup i dint talk to him ..no call no text nothing….
2 days passed he texted me again saying HI after 20 mint i replied HI (it was seen in whatsapp)
thn after 9 to 10 hours at night 3am he texted me “i know it is awkward to ask but i want to know in straight words and honestly “how you found me as a person”? as we had been togather “……. after reading his text i was confused to think what he actually want to know and why does he need to know my answer .and why ?
and finally yesterday( after 8 hours) i replied, “you were a nice person ” after that he dint replied any thing and this text was seen by him .
i just want to know what is the reason why is he doing like this ? he is already in relationship he told me before 21 days and left me ..(described in my earlier post ).and now how should i responce ?…January 23, 2017 at 10:36 am #125983
You want to know his reason and you are asking how you should respond. My answer: ask him for his reason, so that you will have a chance to find out the information you are seeking.