Dear Natalie:
My idea: a framed photo of yours, one he can put on his work desk. A photo of your face smiling (smile to the camera with him in mind)- and write something on the photo, a sentence from your heart, first thing that comes to mind (you can write it first on a paper). A day or more later, look at that sentence. If it feels true to you, absolutely true and accurate, write it on your photo.
anita