<p style=”text-align: left;”>Hi</p>
<p style=”text-align: left;”>Sorry you find yourself so low at the moment. I don’t think you are ready for another relationship yet. I think you should use this time focusing on YOU and developing other interests.</p>
<p style=”text-align: left;”>You will meet someone when you are meant to and you will wonder why you worried so much and why you didn’t enjoy this time of your life instead.</p>
<p style=”text-align: left;”>Read, exercise, visit new places. When you are doing the things you enjoy you will find yourself in a much healthier place and a better position to start a new relationship.</p>
As far as the dating site: not a good idea to get attached to one respondent and to the conversation with him. Converse with multiple men on the site and expect nothing- expect no response from any one of them. Then when someone answers you, re-read the communication with him so far, to refresh your memory, and continue to converse with him. Still expect nothing.
I think attaching yourself so quickly to people and conversations is causing you harm. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be around people or to be cared for, but you have to regulate your own void. Don’t fill it with people. Now is a great opportunity for you to get to know yourself better and to understand why you feel so lonely and what you absolutely need.
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