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    Kelly
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    I, been all week being cyber bullied by people on an art site. They’re purposely trying to make me look bad, insulting me, being mad I blocked them (Well, I block people that are being mean). I honestly feel like people hate me, want to hurt me, I feel in fact wanting to end my life. I been bullied all my life by both family and friends, heck even peers. I have really bad anxiety, mild depression. Meds never helped me. I can’t get rid of their insults, it’s stuck in my head. I just want to end my pain so bad. :/

    Oh yeah this site is not watched enough, they will let people bully you and everything and not care. I’m afraid of people. I really am. I am believing there are no nice people in this world. 🙁

    I want to cut myself too. 🙁

    #69448
    lisa
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    Dear kelly,
    I am so sorry you are suffering so much with being bullied. There will always be haters out there, but they are the ones with the real issues. I think having anxiety and depression will allow you to feel worse. You said meds never helped you. Well, I do believe that you need to try different meds and stay on them a bit to actually feel a bit better. Are you under Dr’s care? He/she may be able to suggest ways in which you can develop a thicker skin and perhaps have you try some meds that may help you feel better.

    There really are nice people in the world, but we are surrounded by the news, media, internet and the majority of it that is out there shows the bad and negative. Reading these blogs, trying an antianxiety or antidepressant, talking to friends, family and your Dr can alleviate some of your stress. Please know that if you want to cut yourself then you should talk with a professional.
    You are an important person in this world and you have a lot to give to others. Please take the suggestions and talk with someone soon.

    God Bless.

    #69449
    Inky
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    Pretend you’re the Dalai Llama and people started bullying you. Do you know what would happen if someone bullied the Dalai Llama? I’ll tell you: His handlers would spirit him away. If the bully went after him by calling or emailing, say, there would be an automated message: “Thank you for inquiring about the Dalai Llama. His Holiness will be appearing at Radio City Music Hall on Nov. 4th/. Call Ticket Master for tickets. Namaste.”

    So have your “handlers” (use your imagination) spirit you away from the art site. Go to another one. For people in real life, ignore. (The Dalai Llama handlers have spirited you out of ear shot).

    And remember that even Jesus was actively sought after to be harmed. And he was the best one!

    Say to the Universe, “Wow, I must be really powerful and a real Somebody to be bullied like this! Thank you for showing me the opposite of my Light. I understand my Light now, so I don’t need that experience anymore. Universe, I forgive you.”

    #69534
    Yudine
    Participant

    Hi Kelly!
    May I know which art site it is? Why do they bully you on it?
    I know a lot of commercial artists and most of them are great people!
    See where they are coming from, and try not to dwell too much into what they say to you.
    It’s unhealthy to get affected by what is not important in your life.
    They are just another human who might be feeling bad behind their computers trying to put others down sometimes too.
    I do not know the reason of their doings, but do not let yourself be affected.
    Keep striving and working on improving your skills, no matter what others say about you or your work.
    You will improve that way too.

    • This reply was modified 9 years, 3 months ago by Yudine.
    #69546
    davidgoliat
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    Since you’re dedicated to art, I assume you’re a very creative person, and you are shy(this is a good thing). Being creative, or a little bit “different” can cause alot of attention. Negative or positive doesn’t matter, but how you respond to it is important. The people you say bully you, do they really know you and know your potential? Do they know you like you know yourself? If they do, which I doubt, they are the victims NOT you! And if they dont know you, then you shouldnt bother at all! What gives them the right to affect your way of living?

    Take some deep breaths, things will get easier, i promise 🙂

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