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  • November 7, 2016 at 4:08 pm #119881
    Gerry
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    Hello everyone,
    I’m 21 and I’ve never had a girlfriend, there was only one girl that I really liked. I told it to her, asked jer out but she politely refused me..
    I know many of you will say just work on yourself, don’t worry, You have enough time ahead of you.. I’m working on myself everyday, at the uni, working out, language classes, meeting new people etc. and I’m really happy with myself now. Also, was not a problem to me to tell this girl that I liked her and ask her out..it’s that I just don’t know how can I meet more girls at the moment.

    The reason I’m writing here is because I wanted to ask you how can I increase the chances of finding a girlfriend? The thing that differs me from most guys of my age is that I want to be in a real relationship with a girl that I’m simmiliar to and that’s why I don’t go to clubs to meet girls, I go there just to have fun.

    Thanks,
    Gerry

    November 7, 2016 at 5:21 pm #119888
    Anonymous
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    Dear Gerry:

    Is there a dating website you can use? Not a hook-up type website but serious dating website? If there is you can type your profile where you state what you stated here, that you are interested “in a real relationship with a girl that I’m similar to.” You can get more specific and clear as to what would be similar to you. What traits and values you are looking for in a girl. With a profile, a presentation of yourself, you can make yourself very clear. The clearer, the better.

    Are there Singles meetings in Uni, people coming together for the purpose of making friends? Something light and easy, no music or partying…?

    Think of your daily schedule- when and where during the day do you come across girls and in which time and place would it be possible for you to talk to a girl?

    anita

    November 7, 2016 at 11:01 pm #119897
    Mishika
    Participant

    Hi Gerry,
    I can understand that we all need personal relationships if we want to function beautifully in life’s ups and downs.
    But I would suggest you to make friends first in university or anywhere . But just make friends. Because if you are looking for a long term relationship because the best relationships start off as a friendship first. Relationships are always stronger when you are a set friend first and a couple second.
    So my suggestion as you are going to many places like you mentioned at uni, language classes etc etc you can easily find a girl with whom you can be friends with. Be her good friend, show her that she can trust you, show her that you are loyal, and you both will fall for each other.

    Hope this help 🙂
    Love and Light
    Mishika 🙂

    November 7, 2016 at 11:03 pm #119898
    Mishika
    Participant

    And yes Gerry
    This might also just help you

    How to have a loving relationship?

    Mishika 🙂

    November 22, 2016 at 8:49 am #120937
    Gerry
    Participant

    Thanks for answering, I did’t really have time these days to reply. I’m not into online dating but I think it’s true that I should first make more friends, I’ll give my best to do that!
    Gerry 🙂

    November 22, 2016 at 9:03 am #120939
    Anonymous
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    You are welcome, Gerry. Post anytime.
    anita

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