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    Julia Garcia
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    my husband is working overseas I miss him and have begged him to come home for 4 years always says he is saving money while he still can he plainly told me that he did not have a girlfriend when I found out last year that he had taken some trips to hong knog and singapore when he told me he was on work duty I was devasted he had already left to return to work and then refused my calls and left me with no job and no money I found a job and took care of all the household and bills now I find on facebook his girlfriend since 2012 all the cosy pictures and trips and flowers he sent her he always said he did not want or need a girlfriend now since I saw this he refuses to talk but he does send many emails telling me he had no choice but to do this because I am a bad women we were going on our annusal vacation together and this year I was looking forward to it I had let go of many expectations and felt that if I was passive we would get along and he would finally come home for good the life we had planned together is probably not going to happen I am left with house and cars to pay for that I do not want or need and I am lonely since he lied does that mean he still cares but now that I know he dumps me I did not get mad I told him how much I loved him and that I should have taken care of him better and he would not need a girlfriend but still no response from him I am half a world away from him and this girl has his ear and I do not think I have a chance of winning him back it is like he wants to see me as a bad person and his mind is made up I need some one to talk to

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    coolcorriander
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    Dear Julia

    First, take a deep breath. Calm your inner self down.

    I’m so sorry to read your post and I can feel your anxiety and sadness. Keep reminding yourself that you are going to be OK. You probably feel like the world is about to caved in but it’s not.

    Honey, I’ve been in your shoes before and I can assure you, it will get better and you are going to be OK.

    You are not a bad person. You only wanted what a wife want/expect from her husband. Companion, love, loyalty, honesty and darling, he didn’t give you any of that.

    It doesn’t matter who dumps who, what matters are that you now have the chance to be happy and loved as you deserved. Tell your self that you are not a bad person. Tell your self that you are worthy of honest and total devotion. Tell your self that it’s your birth right to be loved and happy.

    It’s been a very unhappy 4 years from your post. So my darling Julia, let it go. Let it go and don’t be afraid. Have faith that things always happens for a very good reason.

    Regards to the car and other material things contact your lawyer and see what’s the best thing to go about this. You can sell them and take your halves instance.

    But before I that you need to tell yourself that you are going to be OK. All I said to my self then was ‘I was OK before I met you so now I’ll be OK again without you’

    Keep your chin up. You deserve better, well you deserve the best!

    Lots of love

    Xx

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