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    Hari Chhetry
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    I am in love with a girl. She was the one who fell in love with me first and i followed suit. I found that we were inseparable and liked each other’s company very much. Later, I found that she was my soulmate and I was very happy. I was going through a tough separation with my wife and my soulmate knew everything and was a huge support. Later, her family came to know about us and did not approve me as her partner due to which she detached from me suddenly and never gave any reasons for the same. I was shattered and since then i have not come to terms with her separation. Do you think that soulmate do definitely get together as partner and if they do not then what happens. I love her so much and miss her so much and tried to talk to her and messaged her several times but she stats aloof. I really want her back. What are my chances of uniting with her again.

    #146813
    Anonymous
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    Dear Hari Chhetry:

    You used the term “soulmate” referring to this woman in relation to you.

    Wikipedia entry on “soulmate” reads: “In current usage, ‘soulmate’ usually refers to a romantic partner, with the implication of an exclusive lifelong bond…  It is a very versatile term, being defined differently by different individuals, as it is related to the concept of love. It commonly holds the connotation of being the strongest bond with another person that one can achieve.”

    Notice the last sentence I quoted: “being the strongest bond with another person”- but her strongest bond is with her family who disapproved of the bond with you: “her family came to know about us and did not approve me as her partner due to which she detached from me suddenly and never gave any reasons for the same.”- once her family disapproved, she detached from you quickly and without giving you reasons, and she is not responding to your efforts to reach her.

    Therefore, I am challenging the term “Soulmate”, the title of your thread.

    Unfortunately, the emotional attachment to her that you formed is very strong and so, you miss her so much now that she is gone from your life- that I do not challenge.

    anita

    #146893
    Craig
    Participant

    Hi Hari,

    I think if you keep trying to talk with her and messaging her, then the chances of you two reuniting aren’t very good. When someone is running away, the worst thing you can do is chase them.

    I’m sorry you’re missing her so much.

    Craig

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