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    Avatar of Zia Wesley
    Zia Wesley
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    how to know if you hold on or let go of unrequited love?

    #38054
    Avatar of Zia Wesley
    Zia Wesley
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    met this guy at work last year. offered me a dinner drink but i refused bec i dont drink. always see him 3x a week at work. got attracted with him bec he is charming too. heard so many talks that he has so many girlfriends. well he is a doctor that’s why. we exchanged texts everyday. after a month of being close with him I slept with him. But after that he seems not to care anymore. always busy working( even we became close he is indeed busy) I still send him text mesages- sometime he will reply but most of the time No. Maybe it depends if he is busy or not. After 7 months I slept with him again(2nd time around) Still same set up..he will just text me if i will text him 1st.
    I want to forget him, i know he doesnt care. But I cant.. I always say I will not think of him again but I cant resisit him. I will still end up texting him. I know Iam just hoping for nothing. Iam always anxious everytime he is around. What shall I do? I hate the feeling

    #38055
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    Zia Wesley
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    I always say there is no chance for anything. he never told me he loves me. Its very rare that he will say he misses me. But I really have a intense feeling for him. thinks I cannot let him go or its only me who’s clinging for nothing. In the 1st place we dont have a relationship. but I love him so dearly.

    #38059
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    Valerie
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    What do you love about him? Before you answer…think on this. Never, and I mean never give your love to someone who won’t or can’t give it back. Absolutely nothing can come of it but heart ache and misery. If you love yourself and put yourself first, you’ll see that this is a one-sided relationship. You’ve been mistreated by this person. He understands your feelings and has chosen to ignore them, which shows a level of selfishness and cruelty. You weren’t looking for a booty call…that’s pretty obvious.

    So going back to my original question….what is there to love about this man? Has is treated you will love, kindness and respect? Does he show you any adoration or even admiration? Is he polite, sweet and honest? Does he show an interest in your world, your family and your interests?

    Don’t settle for less than you deserve….

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