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There can be a deep loneliness that comes from not having a family that has your back. I hope you can find supportive people who show up for you.

Cherish those you have in your life because you never know when they won’t be around anymore.

The people you will always remember are the ones who made you feel loved when you were at your lowest.

Be the reason someone feels welcome, seen, heard, valued, loved, and supported.

One day, you are going to hug your last hug, kiss your last kiss, and hear someone’s voice for the last time, but you never know when the last time will be. Live every day as if it were the last time you will be with the person you love.

I love old souls, the daydreamers, the deep thinkers, with lots of fascinating layers. They don’t care what others think, they just do their own thing and when it comes to friends, its quality over quantity.

Feeling safe in someone’s energy is a different kind of intimacy. That feeling of peace and protection is really underrated.

Build someone up. Put their insecurities to sleep. Remind them they’re worthy. Tell them they’re magical. Be a light in a too often dim world.

Find the time to read, to smell the flowers, to paint your dreams, to have coffee with a friend, to learn a new craft, to write a letter, to bake a surprise cake, to go somewhere special, to really be with the person you love, or even do nothing for a while…

Choose people who choose you.

I love the friends you don’t see for days, weeks, or months and the bond is still strong as ever.

Adult friendships are hard. Everyone is busy and life happens. I’ve learned you gotta text people when you’re thinking of them. A simple ‘Thinking of you, hope all is well’ really goes a long way.

You can’t force anyone to value, respect, understand, or support you, but you can choose to spend your time around people who do.

Avoiding certain people to protect your emotional health is not weakness. It is wisdom.

Go where your energy is reciprocated, celebrated, and appreciated.

When people set boundaries with you, it’s their attempt to continue the relationship with you. It’s not an attempt to hurt you.

The reason life works at all is because not everyone in your tribe is nuts on the same day.

Stick with people who pull the magic out of you, not the madness.

It’s the small habits. How you spend your mornings. How you talk to yourself. What you read and what you watch. Who you share your energy with. Who has access to you. That will change your life.

Honor the friendships that allow you to pick up from where you last left off, regardless of how long it’s been since you connected. The friendships that survive hiatuses, silences and space, those are the connections that never die.