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Inky
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Hi Shae03,

I would put the ball in her court. A certain way to turn people off forever is to say, “Let me know how you feel in a day or two.” Then there’s the added pressure of a dead line, or them dreading seeing you ~ because it’s bad news! I would say, “OK, you have my number, it was really great meeting you and I’m glad I know you!”

If there is no pressure from your end, her thoughts and fantasies will tend to take a more positive turn.

If nothing happens I would throw a party (like next month, not now) with a half dozen friends and invite her to hang out. Then it’s low/no pressure, she’s not your “date” and she will meet your other friends and feel comfortable around you.

Be the cool, low pressure guy.

Good Luck,

Inky

  • This reply was modified 8 years, 8 months ago by Inky.