Hi soopy,
You are very young. As you get older, you will be more able to say “No”, more able to discern BS, and less likely to feel anything for this character. Why do you think he chose you? Because of your youthful optimism and forgiving nature! He himself is very young to have two (ex) wives and children. Meaning you were to be the next victim!! And then he would treat you the same way.
What I would do is immediately date other guys, preferably closer to your age. Don’t answer the door when he calls. (How entitled of him! “She’s not doing anything, I’ll just drop by!”) Do you have room mates? Get some, let them know what’s going on. He also can’t get you alone to “talk” if you are never alone!
Your time and attention are his “Food”. You must starve him of his source (you). Trust me, he will then go on to his next target.
Is it possible for you to quietly and quickly move as well as deleting your number? I know it’s not fair, but he knows how to soften you. I don’t want you to be his third baby momma!
Be Strong,
Inky
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