Thank you Anita. I do want to try that.

If she brings it up, I don’t want it, but I also do not want to try to control her. I think I could say something like:

A divorce is not what I want. It really hurts me. I love you and want to make sure I do my part to give the relationship every chance to recover. I cannot stop you if you want a divorce, and would like to do it amicably, but I do ask that you reconsider. Please consider giving it more time. I will on my part, give you more space. If you ever feel differently towards me, then I will be here.

What do you think?