Hi Anita,
My posts are over long (in the 7th June) I said ‘My partner and I were than refereed to marriage guidance (I was given the option on if I wanted to bring my P along to talk to her but she said she would prefer that we start fresh with someone else in case of bias)’

And I agree with you that I am ‘confusedandsuspicious’ and yes I also said I’m verging on OCD – not only am I confused and suspicious I’m in a lot of pain and heartache because I can’t trust my partner who I love very much.

I’ve pressed edit because I ended this post with ‘love very much’ and didn’t finish off properly, with a thanks etc.
But Anita usually I find you post are more helpful and I was really hoping for something more. My writing is long and boring, but I’m still hurting just as much Sh**&^ maybe I should just have an affair too, than I can write in about that… On the day my P had a very quiet day ‘Find my Phone’ showed up for most of the day at that different address, during the times I know my P had no meeting he was there but not others – it may be all coincidence! that is why I am ‘confusedandsuspicious’
Thanks
Best regards

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