The funny thing is, I don’t tonk she knows or feels she is “abusingme”
Actually she says I am the one abusing HER
When I don’t feed her or I keep the house a mess or fight or keep her up at night…
And if I sigh the wrong way that’s what she calls “attitude”
So I wonder if she recognizes her behavior. She’s very smart as a person, manipulative, calculating. ? Yet because I ran away in the middle of the night twice.. im the calculating shady one. But I didnt feel I could flat out tell her.
Now weve discussed it, and im suffering day to day. So even leaving… do you really tonk y plan A will work.. because I’m effectively cleaning ghe house or closer to ajob. I am just depressed and unmotivated.. id rather put in my headphones put on music and “escape” so to speak