Talk to him more, find out if he is available and then ask him out. Eventually that’s how it will be if these feelings will materialize into anything – a deep friendship or love. Soulmates is a rather intense thing which is rare and one only knows for real till they shed their perceptions of a person and see them for who they truly are – it’s not just about being nice or sharing jokes, something much complex to put into words – both feel this and unwittingly stay in each other’s lives whether or not romantically involved. There is an innate understanding, vulnerability and trust – ofyen unspoken signals understood because we know this person so well, as if they were a part of us only – but soulmates is really after we shed away our projections of what we want them to be and see them for what they are.