Awe, I felt for you reading this. I really love what pink24 said about enjoying the little things. I know it’s hard, but once you have a job it may be awhile before you get time to relax like you can now. Try to enjoy it. It’s absolutely free to go to the park and read book, take a walk, go hiking and many other things.

Most of us have experienced changes in lifestyles due to income constraints. Take this time to appreciate the time you had in OC. This time in your life will also allow you to appreciate a more comfortable lifestyle when it comes. When I’m upset it’s usually because I think it will get me something I want. Then I try and control and cling which just makes things so much more difficult when I don’t get what I want. Try accepting where you and your husband are at in life today. Allow the lifestyle to be whatever it will be. Adjust with it and try to remember everything you do have to be grateful for. I find that I get what I focus on. If I’m focusing on the negative that part of my life grows. If I’m only allowing myself to see the beauty in my life it becomes overwhelming how much love there is.

Best of luck to you and your husband! Sending positive healing thoughts 🙂