Dear hangdo:

Better not have a pattern going where you meet a traveling man from Europe/ U.S./Western World, have a few days of romance, the man goes back to the West and you wait for him to realize he is in love with you and marry you.

Were these the thoughts with the Irish guy and now the U.S. guy? Is this a budding pattern…?

In a previous thread you wrote that you are stuck in life, graduated in June of last year, a bit over a year ago, and you find yourself stuck.

Regarding the pattern I suggested, this man in particular, it is unlikely that this will develop into a relationship where the two of you become an item and live together (Is living in the U.S. your hope?) Unlikely but possible. Unlikely because of the other girls on his Facebook page… the competition: there are other girls available to him living close by.

I think that waiting… and waiting for him is a bad idea. If I was you, I would communicate with him about what his time with you meant to him, and what his feelings are for you.

anita