If she says she is only okay with me messaging her on FB and regarding only a few topics, maybe I would accept and keep it the way she wants, for now. Maybe as time passes, I can focus on my goal slowly as we discuss and deem appropriate (or not at all, if its dishonest or inconsiderate). If she says that she no longer wants to have any contact at all… I honestly don’t know what to say.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 