Dear Ravi:

Yes, if you send this message it does mean that if Jerry does not answer you or if she answers you but not positively, it does mean that you no longer message her, not directly and not indirectly (except on the specific Facebook topics she may still be okay with). Yes, it does mean you will not stalk her.

This is a big decision for you then. You have to be okay with this message before you send it. This is the best message, I have no doubt. You might want to wait with it for later… I don’t know.

If you don’t send this particular message, I hope you don’t send any other. I can’t stand the thought of more of the old argumentative, blaming, histrionic Ravi. I got to a place of no return on this issue: I can’t stand the argumentative, blaming, histrionic Ravi!

I so much prefer the responsible, loving Ravi!

So, let me know which Ravi you choose to be…? The Ravi who loves Jerry or the Ravi who Stalks and tortures Jerry?

anita