Hi Michela,

Thanks for responding.. I did feel complete when I met this guy. I had made just progress in self love, seeing a therapist and not really looking for love. I may have been overly nice to him, but that’s just who I am. I’m a nice person, who likes to do nice things for people and remind them that I care deeply for them. I truly, truly adored this person, and wanted him to know that. I didn’t want him to ever question my feelings for him. I, however, didn’t get that from him after about 6 weeks of being together. That’s when things changed, and now that I’ve had some time to reflect, I should’ve clued in then but I just really liked him. I questioned my worth though, I deserve more than someone looking elsewhere, I deserve someone who will fight for a relationship and not go running somewhere else when things get tough.

I really don’t know what I’m supposed to be learning from all this though. My heart hurts, and I’m constantly questioning if I’ve done something that has made someone want to treat me this way. Why someone would want to cheat?