Well no offense but I’m pretty sure it’s because he’s the one my girlfriend cheated on me with…
Also I am very thankful for all the advice your giving me, but I didn’t come here to come to peace with my emotions. I have been nice and non judging my whole life and now when it counted this is where I landed, so evidently being passive and accepting isn’t always the answer to these things. I don’t care for my current situation and I will do everything possible on my front to change things to the way I want them until whatever I do doesn’t matter, I just need to know the best way to do that. In other words no more mr nice guy about whatever happens to me, I will not just accept things the way they are.