Dear Chau:

This relationship and this woman didn’t make you a more confident woman. It and she weakened you and therefore you struggle as much as you do. Her participation in the relationship with you harmed you. Not your doing, that was her doing. Her 50% was harmful to you.

I do hope you put her and the relationship in the past. I do believe you deserve way better than her and that relationship. There must be a better woman out there for you.

anita