Dear Kadidja:

I remember your previous thread or threads on the same issue, the same girl and that girl’s boyfriend. You’ve been thinking and feeling so much for so long regarding her and her boyfriend. Your attachment to her has been intense and your jealousy at her spending time with her boyfriend instead of with you has also been very strong. And like you wrote, your experience is different with your other online friends.

What is it about HER that is so different from your other online friends?

And why is it that you think she OWES you to be your friend, to spend time with you: why is it something you expect of her?

anita