Hi Samuel,

First things first, you’re still young and in the prime of your life. This is not the time to find a girl to settle down with, this is the time to discover who you are and enjoy making friends. Don’t freak because you’re not in a relationship right now.

That being said, there is a lot to be said for treating a girl you like with respect and showing her in ways that other men don’t, but you DO have to ask her out. That loser she’s dating now had the balls to do that. Probably because he didn’t give a shit if she said yes or not because he’s got 3 others lined up if she said no. You’re not like that, so you know you are the best choice she has, but she can’t choose you if you don’t ask!!!

Practice asking a girl out that you kind of like but aren’t dying to date. The more times you practice this when the right woman comes along you’ll be ready. How do you think champions win? Because they PRACTICE!!!!

You’re a sweetie, don’t ever lose that, but you gotta build an edge. You’re a man. Remember that and go get her Tiger!

Jessy