Dear colourpopz:

You asked how to get over a good relationship, one with who you feel was your “soulmate”, a relationship that ended because of the incompatible distance (and different countries), and career choices.

Write down, and be very specific about it, what made him your soulmate. You will have to believe that it is possible for you to meet another soulmate, in order to give up on this soulmate.

If you believe there is only one soulmate, you are in danger of forever-comparing any future boyfriend to this guy, and finding the current boyfriend lacking. And so, simply because ANY future boyfriend cannot possibly be identical to this guy, he will never feel right for you.

If you want, you can do this writing here and we can take it from there.

anita