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Woah. I just had a light bulb lit up in my brain at the moment. You are very wise, Anita. What you said makes complete sense to me. I feel like this is his own issue and his own journey that he had to find the real him. He did tell me that when he was in my country, he felt more like himself. And the fact that I have no idea of how he is like back in his hometown probably contributes to the factor that he does not feel as strongly as he did when he was with me. But you said that the side of him in his country is also a part of him – a part that I don’t have the chance to know at all. That means that I could not completely conclude that we would be good together in every sense. Thank you for this insight. I think writing all these down is therapeutic in a way. I am going to stay positive for the future. Right now, it is very tough for me to get over this man. He is really a good man. Not as a boyfriend or a partner, as a friend. He has very good reputation in my college because people know him as kind hearted and genuinely nice guy. I guess time will heal everything. And hopefully I can get over all the hurt and loss of this relationship and have the courage to love someone again. Thank you very much.