Dear neversaynever:

I suppose this is why “When ever I take her out with my friends she might just ignore me through out the occasion no talking of sort”- she was always open to Other Options, a better deal. So in public she acted unattached to you, in case there is someone who can give her more.

You wrote in your original post: “Her personality took me some time to study i accepted my fate”-

That fate is not yours, isn’t this good news? To her current or future boyfriend/ husband, she is not good news, because she will always want more. If he can’t give her more (and likely, no one can), she will be with another man, while in relationship with the first. Her justification is likely to be: he doesn’t give me what I deserve!

Like I wrote to you before, this is quite common. Having had this experience, be it as painful as it is, gives you the following advantage: you know what to look for in the next woman in your life- the give-me-more attitude. And so, that will be your choice to make, not a matter of fate.

anita