Hi Anita,
What I mean when I say relate, is really to still keep a connection with my family. They more than anyone I believe has a lifetime connection to me. I do understand your points and have taken away a lot from your perspective. Someone suggested an author to me I believe his name is Dr. Henry Cloud and he supposedly has a book called Boundaries.

I am working through a plan that will have me on a path to relocating to a place that has been calling on me energetically for a very long-time and also, I have put into practice to create my own happiness and not wait for anyone I only need myself and whoever wants to be there with me unconditionally.

Thanks Again