Hi Marissa,

With this guy the only thing that will START to make it right is Time. Don’t call him, message him, communicate with him via his friends, etc. Leave him alone. He knows you have emotional issues, but that doesn’t mean he can handle them now. He is freaked out. The more you approach him, the more he’ll remember the times you went nuts on him.

I know this is bad news. Maybe in a couple years send out a tentative message “hey” or type out a long, formal apology.

If it’s true friendship, he will eventually come back ~ as a friend. But on his timetable, not yours.

Best,

Inky