Dear Meg:

In your post before last you wrote: “I feel confident about divorcing him when I’m not near him,

but then when he is around, I again start to feel hopeful and doubt my decision to leave”-

You asked for advice for dealing with this struggle, so I am trying to understand the struggle better: when you feel hope, when he is around what thoughts and feelings are in that HOPE that you feel?  (are there … loving feelings, attachment feelings in that hope…)?

anita