Anita, if i really liked a guy i would drive 2 hours to see them! or more! if he really wanted to see me or was interested in me he would too. i mean he knew where i lived it was no surprise. he even asked me about it and he said the drive would totally be worth it.

another thing is most of the guys that message me on match live cities away..the way i see it is why message me if you know where i live and aren’t willing to drive out here?

i had a long distance relationship and this guy drove from san fran to see me or fresno every week!

and yes not all guys are the same but come on 45 min drive? i drive to school for one hour on a daily basis with traffic as well.

im just so confused, i like him and want to try this with him, but whats the point if we will see each other once a month..and he is very proud i feel like, if i were to text him what you are saying he would get all defensive and probably end things or suggest to be friends like he did before.