Hi Anita

I think you have summed it up perfectly. My husband is a very nice guy and I care for him deeply but I didn’t realise how much was lacking in our relationship until the interaction with my co worker. The only way I can describe it is its as if life was black and white before, but now I know it can be colour. I felt passion and alive .

I feel guilty and bad because my husband has not changed … I have. He is finding it very difficult to understand.

He is a good man but our relationship doesn’t fulfil me. Would it be terrible to leave him, even though I do love him, because of this?

Thanks