Hi Anita
I think you have an interesting point about whether this issue will follow me into any future relationship, if I do leave.

However I did have more of a connection with my ex husband, and subsequently my work colleague, than I do my current husband.

I wonder if it’s more that I married him unconsciously knowing he would never hurt me in the same way that my first husband did, because he doesn’t seem to display emotion in the same way my ex did?

I feel that my current husband won’t hurt me (in the fact he wouldn’t leave me), and is reliable and steady, all things which my ex wasn’t in the end after his  breakdown.

However the lack of emotion and connection between me and current husband makes me feel dead inside.

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