Dear yogagrl:

The title of your thread: “Will men ever regret ending a relationship?”- some men regret ending some relationships, others don’t. What you meant to ask is: will your ex boyfriend regret ending the relationship with you.

How can anyone reading your thread answer this question? I can’t because I don’t know him. Strangely, neither do you.

After three years of a relationship, when he broke up with you over the phone, doesn’t seem to me like you asked him questions or wondered out loud to him, on the phone, about why aren’t you talking in person about separation, after three years…?

Then there were no more talks for a long time, followed by a few catching-up talks. Again, no real communication. How strange.

Your education as a medical doctor entails a lot of concrete information, practical science. And yet, when it comes to relationships, seems to me, your thinking of the magical kind: loves me/ loves me not. Maybe we’ll get together some day over the rainbow.

If you ever choose to have a meaningful conversation with him, if such is possible on your part and his, ask him, ask him why he broke up with you. Ask him if he ever regretted breaking up with you and if he thinks he will ever regret it…

For concrete information, ask the source of the information- the ex regarding this past relationship, or a future boyfriend in a future relationship.

anita