Hi Jamie,

I hear that you feel lost and helpless. From my point of view, I don’t see you that way.  My thought is that your emotional entanglement with him will go on a long time as long as you:

1. keep sleeping with him

2. keep responding to his texts or calls

3. keep thinking “it” is his fault.

So, my suggestion is that:

1. stop sleeping with him

2. stop responding to his texts or calls

3. stop blaming him – phrasing this differently, stop being mad that he won’t change – put that energy into changing yourself, and walk away from this guy.

These are just my thoughts, you’ll have to figure out what works best for you.

Craig