Dear laelithia:

I guess no man can compete with “this perfect man” “who wasn’t real” (outside the  expired time-limited context). No other man can compete with Fantasy. You are prolonging the relationship with this perfect man of yours in your own way.

Reads to me, at this point, that you prefer this Fantasy, this unreal man of yours, over reality of a real man.

You wrote in an earlier post about him: “I can’t seem to feel like the connection I felt with him is possible with anyone else. It’s like he holds the key to that part of me”- he holds the key for you being loved, correct?

And it is safer to hold on to Fantasy because you don’t believe that in reality you can be loved, am I correct?

anita